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Wat Rajamontean, two blocks from my apartment.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

In Thailand, I became increasingly aware of the ways of life I had grown accustomed to in the states. I looked for some of the same creature comforts in Chiang Mai. The fact is, this approach of seeing and wanting things the way I am used to, is not a healthy way of living in another country. The more I was able to let go of these expectations, my experiences became much more interesting, rich and unique. Rather than comparing things or analyzing them, I started accepting that \u201cthis is how it\u2019s done here\u2026\u201d (it is also interesting to understand why)<\/span><\/p>\n

Many travelers, including myself, get too much information online about what to see and do, and how to act in other countries. After weeks of \u201ctrying on\u201d behaviors that people had schooled me on, or learning from books and online forums, I realized that none of these were my own<\/em> approach. As a newcomer to this area, I decided to take advantage (mindfully) of the fact that I don\u2019t know all of the social norms. <\/span>If I did something wrong, I learned from it. I made a conscious effort to let go of social insecurities or fears about how to act. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"For example, I was unsure about social etiquette regarding monks. I visited many temples and regularly encountered monks. I had read that females are forbidden to initiate contact with monks. I made friends with an older Thai woman who introduced me to 6 young monks. They were all learning English and were eager to speak with me, but very shy. I was very nervous to talk with them too, and also to say things incorrectly, or disrespectfully in Thai. I soon realized that we were sharing the same fears. It was a great experience to exchange words and ideas with them. It simply required a courageous act to get it going. (I am now friends with a monk on the Line app!)\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I also began to see the clashes of old conventional thinking and new waves of thought. This is a common subject of conversation with Thais from all walks of life. We are all trying to adjust to change and deal with differences.\u00a0<\/span>I thought about what makes New York City such a great place, and it\u2019s the cultural diversity. I think the same holds true for Chiang Mai. I was able to sample Chiang Mai\u2019s culture here and now, yet simultaneously, I was adding to its cultural flavor as well.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Local artist drew my portrait!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

I attended an Arts Symposium at Chiang Mai University which included panel discussions led by Asian art curators. I visited nearby exhibitions and artist residency programs and connected with local artists. One of the reasons I chose to study in Chiang Mai is to build an arts exchange program between Thailand and the USA. It was particularly interesting to learn about the diverse perspectives on the shifting and potential arts scene in the region.<\/span><\/p>\n

Other social meetings, food adventures and indulgences:<\/span><\/p>\n