New Bus Norms

Fortunately, Ecuador has a history of strong public transportation, enabling me to travel wherever I wanted, throughout Cuenca or the country, without the need of a car. However, after learning to navigate the bus system, I was not prepared to learn how to navigate the cultural norms on the bus.

While I am not extremely experienced in using public transportation in the US, when I am on a bus or a train, I put on my headphones, keep to myself, and do school work if I am able. While I expected that I should be careful with my belongings and typically avoided music on the bus, I was not prepared for the marketplace that the bus would turn in to.

After a few minutes of happily enjoying the mountain views as I bussed an hour away to the town of Paute to visit my old host family, the bus stopped as someone got on wearing a microphone headset and carrying a speaker, along with a giant bag, overflowing with some sort of candy wrapped in plastic (I later was told that these were melcochas, a traditional taffy candy that I learned how to make with my host aunt). The man began passing out samples of the candy as he began a long-winded speech by blessing us, explaining his where he was from, and how the proceeds of the melcochas would help those struggling with alcoholism. He walked up and down the aisle talking, asking questions, and touting the freshness of his taffy.

This became a regular occurrence, as people hopped on the bus to sell fruit, candy, locally produced lotions, school supplies, headphones, and phone chargers, with multiple salesmen trying to find customers at the same time. While this experience was still new, I struggled to even describe what was going on. I struggled to hear their Spanish over the loud bus and was confused as to why the sales pitch included handing out samples of the product being sold.

While I learned to adapt, the first occurence of this was not without hiccups. As I was handed the sweet melcocha through sentences painting pictures of down-on-their-luck people struggling with addiction, I immediately unwrapped it and tried it without thinking, as I assumed that the sample was free. However, this interpretation could not have been more incorrect. As I looked around at the other Ecuadorians on the bus, the stared blankly out the window and did not give the salesman a second thought, patiently waiting with their sample. This confused me, until the salesman wrapped up his speech and began taking the melcochas back from those that didn’t eat it. Immediately realizing my mistake, I dug through my backpack to find some spare change to pay for the candy – I had fallen into the salesman’s trap (but the melcocha was worth it!). I luckily found a few spare coins at the bottom of my bag, and felt stupid for falling prey to such a simple sales tactic.

Evaluating the incident for what happened, however, should dissuade myself from these negative feelings as I was still adapting to a new place and practicing the language. It is also very difficult to refuse a new and foreign sweet treat. While my immediate reaction was negative, thinking about the incident yielded laughter as a recounted it to my host family over a fresh meal of seco de pollo that night.

Lost in Japan (6): Judgment

I’ve written about my ambitions and how I had no real purpose for studying Japanese. The Fool.

I’ve written about the many shades of gray that appear amidst intercultural interactions. The Moon.

I’ve written about pride and the embellished presentation of each of our own cultures. The Sun. 

I’ve written about the issues that never see the light of day – the problems that don’t shine bright enough. The Star.

I’ve written about the importance of understanding that we are not at the center of The World. 

And now: Judgment

There is no greater arbiter for your life’s achievements than yourself. So, when you reflect on your experiences and your growth, subjectivity should be the focus. You know yourself best. Who cares what others think?

Now, time for a little reflection for myself. How did this trip to Japan fare for me?

It’s safe to say that Japan exceeded my expectations. And I’d attribute my enjoyment to the small things. After my tourist-phase wore off and I stopped getting lost, I had the chance to settle down and live an ordinary life. There were days where I just took the train to school, stopped by the bookstore, took a trip to the mall, and went for a run at the park. There was never a dull day. But a lot of that credit goes to my wonderful host family. I’m happy to say that I’ve found a third home. 

And, overall, this experience has changed my life goals. I’ve gone from wanting to work in Japan to living in Japan. I never took the lifestyle outside of work into consideration. Apart from that, I plan to make many more trips in the future to visit my host family. As I left, we promised each other that it wasn’t “goodbye,” just a “see you later.”  And besides, I want to watch Ema and Shuutaro grow up. I’m proud to be their older brother. 

Beyond just interacting with another culture, I learned about the nuance of it. Having had many conversations with the Japanese about international politics, society, and spirituality, I encountered many different opinions. Before this trip, I would’ve labeled Japan as homogenous both in ethnicity and tradition. But it’s not like that at all. 

Culture is not a predetermined feature bestowed onto the public. It is malleable, morphed by the people. The countryside and growing suburbs in Japan are just like any other country’s. Each has its own customs, accent, and traditions. Overall, Japan is a very linear society. Conformity is a strong characteristic. But you should not mistake conformity for submission like I did.

I find it especially interesting that Japan is suffering from a declining birthrate. Immigration policies could be loosened to combat the economic challenges. Japan’s ~3% population of immigrants (residents, not tourists) could soon rise. And with that, new ideas could be introduced. Regardless of my admiration of (and now connection with) the country, I think following the next century of Japan’s history will give us a contemporary perspective of what constitutes Culture.

Thank you for reading,

Daniel

The World is Waiting For You

After my final night in Paris, my sister Kelly and I traveled by train under the English Channel to spend a couple of days in London–my first time in the UK! 

Moving from France to England felt like a soft transition back to the US since the UK capital felt like a mix of European culture and American lifestyle. In the city, there were still European stores, farmers’ markets galore, and centuries-old castles and churches that served as a consist remind of the Royal Empire’s power. But returning to the comfort of the English language and the presence of American fast food chains like Starbucks and Chipotle gave me a sense of being closer to the States. After a weekend with Les Miserables (the perfect capstone to my time in France), sight-seeing, and Wimbledon, it was time to head back home to the United States. I was excited to get back home and see my family and friends again, but I certainly felt like I was leaving behind one of the greatest summers of my life where I challenged myself, developed my French, met incredible people, and visited amazing sites. What a six weeks!

Since coming home from France, I’ve reflected primarily on the idea of language learning and the relationship between French and English. 

Language learning can unlock new experiences, and it can help you see the world differently at the most formative levels of language. 

By immersing myself in the French language, I pushed the boundaries of comfort and experienced a more true France; it wasn’t just a place to see, but a country to live in and (try to) become a part over my six weeks. Speaking French allowed me to interact with locals, avoid some difficult situations due to a language barrier, and learn to adapt to a country when you’re the tourist. 

Leaving France genuinely felt like I was leaving my newly formed French-speaking self there. 

Now back to English speaking, I also realized that there are very few things in French that are directly translated to English–subject usage, objects placements, quick phrasing and greetings, and most importantly verb usage. In France, I had to think carefully about what I wanted to say… working primarily to avoid thoughts in English with the verbs “to get” and “to happen.” The verbs simply do not exist in the same way in French, and they are such a common part of my American English vernacular in everyday speech that it was difficult to adjust at first. I learned to use “recevoir,” “passer,” and a variety of other subtly different verbs that don’t quite work the same way as in English. 

Visiting England, it felt like British England shared more (very subtle) similarities to French than American English–shared vocabulary like cinemas and toilettes, more precise verbs (ex. Not using “to get” as frequently), and even just the subtle “-re” ending of words. Noticing these differences made me understand languages are truly just a means to help people communicate and understand each other, and neighboring languages have an incredible impact on each other, especially in Europe. And as distance grows, it brings larger differences, for both the same languages and different ones. Now with this deeper understand, I just want to keep refining my French and start on the next language to keep discovering the world and its people!

With exceptional French improvement, incredible experiences, newfound friendships, and personal growth in confidence, fearlessness and maturity, this summer abroad was truly the experience of a lifetime. Thank you so much to the CSLC and SLA for amazing experience, and thank you for keeping up with this blog!

Merci beaucoup, passez une bonne journée, et vive la France!

A weekend in London! Featuring Tower Bridge, Buckingham Palace, and Wimbledon

La France me manque! I miss France!

Featuring (from top to bottom): Honfleur, Étretat, Le Château de Versailles, Amboise, Le Château de Chenonceau and Grounds (4 images), Tours Farmers’ Markets with Flowers, Bayeux Cathedral.

Final Post

After returning to the US, I have to say Italy exceeded my expectations, which is saying a lot. I knew I would have an amazing time before I left, but I did not know exactly how much of an emotional hold it would have on me. The first time I went to Italy, I fell in love with the culture. This time, however, it was more powerful because I made the effort to interact with locals and make friends. I was expecting a lot, but in applying myself more fully to the culture, I was able to have something more than just another fun summer.

I know it sounds cliche, but it’s true that studying abroad changed my life. In terms of the friends I made, both Italian and American, I was more outgoing than ever and met so many amazing people from all over Italy and the US. My first solo trips took me to London and Vienna, and gave me immense confidence in my ability to manage myself in new environments. I now know that I can live and thrive in unfamiliar places, and I will probably use this experience to help me intern somewhere out of my home state for next summer.

I feel like my worldview has expanded tremendously, as it does every time I visit new places. Above all, the confidence aspect will inspire me to keep traveling and learning as I go. I have so many different places I want to go to, and I think my semester abroad will have even more in store for my solo exploring.