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I must admit…I miss a lot of things about Europe. The wastefulness and consumerism of the United States becomes more apparent after having lived in another part of the world. The food, the transportation, the buildings, the quality of clothes, I could go on and on, lacks the detail, history, and quality that permeated everything in France.

Possibly, the timelessness that I found in the French lifestyle and landscape can be cultivated even here. I think the desire to be a part of a legacy and to live surrounded by beauty is a unique attribute of humanity. It speaks to our longing for something greater than ourselves, and I am hopeful that more and more Americans will recognize and foster it in our society.

Overcoming Stereotypes: A Journey of Cultural Immersion

I recently had a discussion with my host family. My host family has been hosting students for over ten years, but I’d observed that many of the youngsters (some of whom were now young adults) seemed aloof, so I started to question them about it. They proceeded to explain to me that this was due to prior experiences with groups of students who had stayed at their home. They would often entertain groups of American students who were nasty, did not regard them as equals, and did not seem to realize they were being welcomed into someone’s home and family. For that reason, they began to assume that most students would be the same, thus initiating an in-house separation between host family and students. Obviously as I spent more time with my host family, it became clear that their initial apprehension did not represent their actual personality. They were kind and sincere in their desire to get to know me. It was only that their previous experiences had clearly affected their expectations and attitudes toward incoming students. In general, this interaction made me consider the importance of cultural knowledge and understanding when engaging with individuals from diverse backgrounds. It is simple to make assumptions or generalize based on prior experiences, yet doing so might impede us from making genuine connections and appreciating the variety that enriches our environment.

Having had to adjust to U.S. culture when I arrived at Notre Dame, I could empathise with them. While not of the same theme, I definitely was taken aback by just how different a lot of U.S. personalities tended to be when compared to Ireland (and Europe). I feel like in my time here I have definitely come across people who could fit into the bracket of students my host family mentioned. However, it is important to note that these examples do not reflect the whole community. Just as my host family’s first beliefs about students were proved incorrect by their interactions with me (at least in my own opinion), we must approach new experiences with an open mind and without preconceived prejudices.

Blog Post II: Adaptation

I have almost been here for two full weeks! Time really has flown by this past week, as I am starting to feel more and more comfortable as a foreigner living in a different country.

The initial travel was definitely a long and stressful day. On the plane, I did not really know how to feel because I had absolutely no idea what to expect. Yes I knew where I was staying and what classes I would be taking, but I did not know what friends I would make, what I would be eating, and what my day to day schedule would be like. However, the first weekend flew by! I was quickly adopted into the residence friend group and they forced me to stay up a little longer and go out and explore the city and night life. After two days of little sleep and pure exhaustion, I started to feel comfortable in this new place and all my nerves were slowly disappearing. On Monday I began classes: a 2 hour grammar class followed by an hour of Spanish Business. I really enjoy both of my professors, and a few kids from my residence are in my classes which took away from those first class nerves.

Last week I went to Sevilla with some friends. It was an amazing city with a different vibe than Salamanca. It was very colorful with lots of palm trees, but also extremely hot. We saw the Plaza de España (where Star Wars was filmed) and the Alcázar de Sevilla (where Game of Thrones was filmed). I love cinema so it really felt like I was in a movie.

A critical incident that I had when I first arrived was immediately speaking Spanish with my house Mom. Coming off summer break I was definitely rusty, and she only speaks Spanish and expects you to keep up even if you can’t. This was very overwhelming as she was explaining the rules of the residence and showing me around. I was filled with stress as I did not remember/ did not understand half of the things she was saying. However, now that I am two weeks in I have already seen so much improvement in my comprehension, as I am now able to have (mostly) full conversations with her in Spanish.

I am so excited for what’s to come on this trip, and will post my next blog in a few weeks!

Cultural Dimensions

Now that I’m at the end of my time in Spain, I think it’s interesting to reflect on the differences between American and Spanish culture using these specific indices. When I first arrived, I didn’t feel like I experienced much culture shock and actually thought the differences I observed were relatively minor. However, studying them in the context of Hofstede’s cultural dimensions helps me better categorize and articulate the underlying differences that influence the behaviors I’ve observed. 

To start, I think the U.S. (unlike Spain) would fall more on the achievement side of the achievement – nurturance index. Though I didn’t have a job in Spain, the general work-life dynamic strikes me as a large difference between the two countries. In the U.S., there seems to be a lot more emphasis on working hard to reach a particular goal, such as a promotion, award, or certain level of income (which might enable you to afford certain personal goals). People tend to work long hours during the work week, and it’s not unusual for people to even work on the weekend depending on the industry. On the other hand, compared to the U.S., I think Spain would fall more on the nurturance side of the spectrum. There seems to be a more leisurely attitude towards work, with the days often organized to allow for a break in the afternoons. Instead, the priority seems to be personal pleasure or enjoyment. For example, my teachers told me it’s quite normal to go to a local bar with your colleagues after work regularly, and people go out to clubs all throughout the week instead of just Fridays and Saturdays. The general mindset seems to be to fit work into your life, rather than life into your work as often happens in the U.S. I don’t necessarily think that one is better than the other, but it’s interesting to see the difference. It also might overlap with the short and long term time orientation index, as work in the U.S. is often oriented towards future goals or benefits, whereas life in Spain might be more focused on enjoying the present moment.

In addition, I think Spain would fall further on the indulgence side of the indulgence – restraint spectrum than the U.S. would. Based on my experience, there seems to be a greater openness in Spain to express in public what would be considered more private emotions in the U.S. (In past blog posts, I’ve discussed my experiences with frequent PDA and an acceptance of staring that surprised me). 

I think both of these differences might help explain the general stereotypes that people in each country seem to hold about the other. For example, I believe that Americans are often seen as workaholics in countries that might be more nurturance oriented, but I think this simply reflects different priorities among different cultures and variations in the way people seek satisfaction. Overall, I’ve really enjoyed my time in Spain and the ways it’s allowed me to experience a different culture!